how to buy vintage on eBay without regretting it (vol. 2)

As promised, here's a curated list of some of my favorite eBay outposts. I'm even sharing some of my closely-guarded secrets here, so y'all better appreciate!

First, I'll say that I believe smart, disaster-avoidant eBaying requires a pretty honed sense of personal style, so I've tried to roundup some of my faves across those categories (and decades.) Whether you're a Rachel Zoe-boho 70s type or a fierce 80s devotee a la Tina Chow, here are some tips on where to go:

For the hippie canyonista: Enid and Edgar. Caftans? Check. Embroidery? Check. Long-haired girls posing distractedly in front of trees, boulders, and riverbeds? This is on some Woodstock tip. Even if they get the random 50s or 80s piece they somehow manage to transport it to an early Wonder Years episode, stat.

For the 90s revivalist/Wasson wannabe: Hold My Gold is a great eBay secret. It's a small store with limited stock, so the bidding rarely gets wildly out of control. (And the peeps that run it are extra nice.) They are partial to anything with an echo of Milli Vanilli or My So-Called Life, so look here for biker jackets, cropped tops, and high-waisted tuxedo pants. As an added bonus, their current model has a bit of Agyness Deyn flair, which makes everything look extra enticing.

For the careful vintage collector: Persephone Vintage is a dreamy outpost for loved and recycled Rykiel, Couregges, Nina Ricci and Chloe pieces. Basically, if I died and went to heaven, my closet would be this eBay store. These are those carefully-selected, truly special items that you would kill to find under a pile on a blanket at the Rose Bowl. Except that smart people like these snap them up first to re-sell. Right now I'm crushing on a 1970s Valentino Dalmatian print shift dress that sadly (but happily for my checking account) I know won't fit. Go here if you want to seek out curated, smart selections that you'll keep for a lifetime. (Or at least wish you had.)

For the Dynasty-loving 80s girl: Thrifted is a heavily-stocked outpost for Valley Girl and Ivanka Trump circa 1986 must-haves. If you like sequins and shoulder pads, check it out. Just make sure you pounce when bidding gets down to the last minutes--they've got a lot of die-hard fans, with good reason. Brenda Dickson would so welcome you to her home if you arrived in one of their many ensembles.

For the Fur (and Faux Fur!) Lovers: Indie Cult Vintage has a serious collection of vintage furs--both real and fake--that will absolutely not make you miss digging through aptly-named flea market racks full of smelly, dusty pelts from yesteryear. Leopard swing coats, mink capelets, faux snow leopard, fox gilets...the choices are kind of endless.

made her think handbags: kinda mean, totally chic

I'm a long-time devotee of Meredith Kahn and her accessories line Made Her Think. Her stuff is always macabre, romantic and a little sexed-up. (I'm a sucker for skulls and studs mixed with pastels and prettiness.)

So I'm really anxiously awaiting the arrival of her new line of handbags, which won't be available until February, but are up for pre-order now. Black leather? Check. Metal and tassels? Check. 'Tude? Double, triple check. I'm loving how the metalwork on these bags resembles shark teeth and the leather has that perfectly-loved texture.

Best of all, these are a perfect alternative to the Alexander Wang bags the masses will be sporting come fall/winter.

how to buy vintage on eBay without regretting it (vol. 1)

(images via Bustown Modern and Hollywood Style Vintage)

I love scouring eBay for vintage finds, but I know for many people it's a daunting and scary prospect. However, scoring on eBay is a thrill, and if you've never done it, I pity you. Not only can you snag truly one-of-a-kind stuff there, but usually, you get it for a mad bargain. So, in the hopes of inspiring a new legion of eBay hunters, I'm presenting my ground rules shopping the site.


1) If you're cool with digging for buried treasure--like me--don't be afraid to search something as vague as "vintage, 90s." If you're less patient, type in exactly what you want, i.e. "black, body-con dress" or "floral blazer." And only search under the "clothing, shoes & accessories > vintage" category. (Some sellers use the word "vintage" to describe cheesy, new stuff a la Forever 21, so this will weed them out of your results.)

2) Make sure you're NOT looking at an item that's been pinned on the model or mannequin. If you are, what looked like a fitted peplum skirt might be a tent. The majority of good vintage purveyors on eBay make it clear on their page that they never pin their clothes in pictures.

3) Look for at least four pictures of any item--from the front, back, sides and a close-up. You wouldn't buy a dress at a boutique without turning it around on the hanger to see what the back looks like, or taking a close look at the print of the fabric. Don't do it online, either.

4) Pay attention to seller feedback. I wouldn't be cool with buying from someone whose rating was less than 98-percent positive.

5) If the seller doesn't include information you want--like exact measurements--ask for them. Most of the time people are happy to answer your questions via e-mail. Also remember that as a buyer, it's your job to read the item description carefully to look for info about any holes, stains, or missing buttons.

6) Know that if something sketchy happens, you'll almost certainly be able to get your money back with an e-mail or two. Both eBay and Paypal will help you out if a seller never sends you your item or if something you bought was misrepresented.

7) Realize that once in a blue moon, you won't love the way something fits or looks in person. And that doesn't make it the seller's fault. In that (rare) case, get thee to a tailor or just give up and go to Crossroads or Buffalo Exchange. Consider it a small price to pay to the eBay gods.

8) Keep tabs on your favorite sellers. I've got a list of about 10 eBay-ers I follow because I know they get a steady stream of items in my style and sizes.

9) DO NOT bid until the last ten minutes of an auction or you'll only serve to drive up the price. And decide on the highest price you're willing to pay before you make an initial bid. It's easy to get caught up in the gambling aspect and end up paying twice as much for a pair of boots than you intended--just because you want to win. If you follow these rules, I promise you'll rarely be disappointed. In vol. 2, I'll be giving you a rundown of my favorite eBay sellers.

trend report: things with holes in them

celebrity style: not always an oxymoron!

I hate, hate, hate it when people ask anyone the following question: Which celebrity's style do you most admire? I despise this inane line of questioning for a number of reasons. (The most prominent one being that most living celebrities cannot dress themselves. Literally, now that I think of it.)

However, I have finally decided that--if I am ever asked this question during one of the many interviews the international media regularly requests of me--I can answer it with a resounding "Diane Kruger."

Diane (can I call you Diane?) actually dresses like a person with likes and dislikes. She has a sort of high concept Holly Golightly x Jane Birkin + LouLou de la Falaise look that does not apologize for being costume-y or over-the-top or maybe sometimes even a little ridiculous. I'm not going to delude myself into thinking she doesn't have a stylist, but even so, she still has balls, a sense of humor, and a willingness to load herself up with more texture than a Monet painting. Case in point:

Black Tie:

Fur and Feathers:

Mini/Micro:

Just don't let yourself find out who her boyfriend is, mmk?